New toy

Well it has been a while since I have last posted and not really a whole lot has happened. I still keep him chaste and I still keep him frustrated.
We do have a weight loss program going on though. I started him being orgasm free for the entire month of October. There is a catch to that though. As I lose weight he adds days. As he gains weight, he adds days. If he loses weight he gets rewarded by something that pleases me, should I gain weight it is a benefit to him, he gets to remove days. Needless to say I have not lost days for him being chaste, I have extended them. I have added a total of 7 days do his being kept chaste. Yeah me! And in case you haven't noticed, either way it goes I'm the one that benefits.
Now he does get to come out of his device on a fairly regular basis. When we first started this it was on all the time; then I got to thinking how much of an inconvenience it was to me and what I wanted. If I wanted to slide his cock in to my pussy I had to unlock him. If I wanted to just play with his cock and tease him unmercifully I had to unlock him. So I have amended my rule of wearing the device some. When I am home he can be out of it. That allows me the freedom to do what I want when I want. I do so enjoy grabbing myself a handful of cock at any random given time. Just because he his out of his device does not mean he gets release. That is far from the truth. It just makes it easier for me to receive the pleasure I want when I want it. My own personal sex toy. At times I call him my blow up doll. I can use his cock and mouth anytime I want.
Last night I wanted to try something new. I had him put my strap-on on and double penetrate me. That was pleasant but awkward. He was stroking my pussy with his cock but it didn't seem to cause the dildo that was in my ass to move. Will have to file that experience away for further experimentation.
We did buy a new toy today and I'm anxious to try it out. It is a double penetration type strap-on. There is an anal plug and a g-spot plug to hold the strap-on in place so that I can take the dildo and penetrate his ass. This is going to take some concentration on my part not to let them slip out of me in all of my excitement. Don't know how it can be called a strap-on when there are no straps to hold it on. I will have to report back to you on this little adventure.
Until then.....

Last nights rendezvous

     Last night was date night. I told you in the previous blog that I was going to continue with my cruel streak. Well that didn't go quite as I had thought. Did I continue with the teasing? Well that's a no brainer, of course I did.  Just wasn't as easy as I had hoped for.
     We went out for dinner and a movie. The dinner was in a crowded restaurant so I had to have conversation that was on the sexual side. The movies was a bit easier just not as simple as my mind played it out to be. I had him in his cage of course, but his pants were unzipped in the theater for me to have easy access. Well sitting in theater seating is not easy access by no means. Especially if one is to be discreet in public. I did venture a little on the risky side, mind you I did say a little, and fed him popcorn and M&M's from my cleavage. That turned out to be quite humorous and I still ended up with a shirt full of popcorn crumbs. When we got home it was an early night for us old folk since we had to work the next morning. But that's not to say I didn't get to have my pleasure before drifting off to sleep.
Lying in bed I felt the urge for him to suckle my breast. His mouth, his tongue caressing the nipple of my breast. Immediately my nipple hardened to his teasing. His hand slid down my belly to my nether region. Yes, it was hot and wet. He could feel the heat radiating from my pussy through the material of my pajama bottoms. Yes I wear pj's to bed, he has to sleep nude while I get to sleep however I so desire. His hand slips beneath the waistband and toys with my clit. I'm moaning and squirming beneath his touch. I change course and have him get one of my dildos. While he gets one of my favorite toys I lean over to my nightstand to get my other favorite toy, my vibrator. He inserts the dildo in my wet pussy and brings me quickly to orgasim. I'm not done though, I want more. He plays with my sensitive ass. Oh how I love that little hole to be played with. I quickly peak again. I'm thinking if I had a double penetration I would be in absolute heaven. After I was finally sated I had him lick my dildo coated in my succulent juices clean.
     All in all it was a very pleasant night for a date. Alone time without the kids is always good. Anyway.....until next time.

Remote teasing

     Today I decided that I would do some remote teasing to keep my wonderful lover on edge.  With him being locked in a chastity device it becomes a little more tricky to keep him sexually frustrated when he's at work or we both are at work.  So periodically I have to be creative and see what I can do to keep him wanting to serve me to the fullest.
     I like to meet him on my off days for lunch; so today he got to join me in my rounds of getting ready to meet him.  I started by just telling him I was naked (that caught his attention).  Then I took a picture of my naked body and sent it to him.  Now he is at my full attention.  I get responses in text messages like crazy; him describing the beauty he sees in me.  In a matter of one minute I received 8 text messages with descriptive words regarding his thoughts on my appearance.  After I showered I then sent him a closer shot of my naked body, then a close-up of my pussy and a close-up of my breasts.  I now start receiving texts about how cruel I'm being.  I'm thinking, "honey this is only the beginning of cruelty".  Then he receives a picture of me half dressed, I'm in my matching bra and panties and a pair of jeans.  The jeans are unzipped and open to show the top of my panties.  Time for more close-ups of my bra encased breasts to enhance my cleavage.  With age those puppies tend to sag so placing them in a push-up bra puts them back to their youthful position.  Now I am fully dressed and he receives the shot of my low cut shirt that just gives you a peak of the cleavage.  Decent for public eyes but just a hint of naughtiness.  Now I have him where I want him.  When I meet him for lunch it is all he can do to contain himself.  He is so ready for some major make out sessions, but of course I just have to keep him at bay.  The level of his frustration must be through the roof by now.
     This evening we are going to to be going out and I can't wait to see what more I can do to add to his level of frustration.  Until then..........

In the beginning

     We have been living the lifestyle of a Wife led Marriage for about a month now.  It has been an experience I think I needed for some time.  I have for the longest time lost my desire for sex.  Starting this now makes our sex life on my terms and I don't feel like I have to do my wifely duties on a constant basis.  I get to say when, I get to say how and I get to say where.  This in turn has ignited my desire for sex.  My libido is back.  Mind you it is not as strong as his nor as it used to be but if this train continues on this track I do believe it will be running full speed ahead in no time at all.  But with that being said, my sex drive now gets the satisfaction and pleasure and his has been squashed like a bug.  When I say squashed I mean I have locked his cock in a chastity device and he only gets to come out to play when I say he can.  Just because he gets to play does not mean he gets to have release.  That only means that I don't have to go to the local sex shop and buy myself a blow up doll, I just use him.  Better than any plastic doll any day.
     With us going in to this Wife led Marriage we have discussed cuckolding.  Is this an area we are ready to explore?  Is this an area we even want to explore?  The thought sure gets my pussy wet but what about the actual deed.  We have a strong marriage, the strongest it has been in a very long time.  That does not mean it can withstand the strains of another man entering our lives and fucking my brains out while he just gets to watch.  For his only responsibility in the whole scenario would be to clean me and the other lucky guy up.  This is not going to happen with soap and water either.  When he cleans us up it will be a tongue bath.  Removing all semen from my pussy and taking the cock of the lucky guy in to his mouth and cleaning my tasty juices from it.  It takes a strong man to be able to just stand back and watch his wife have sex with another man.  Do I think he is strong enough for this endeavor?  When he is as horny as he is now, yes.  When he actually has the opportunity for release, then what?
     Well enough ramblings for the evening.  I do believe it is now some quality me time.